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I am helping my friend with shower gift for her niece. Montessori toys are the first that comes to my mind. These are the information I have gathered.
A blog of what I am reading...mostly Montessori/related books. About sorting out my thoughts from these reads, so my entries are often edited as I build it up upon my previous knowledge.
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Imbucare box with large cylinderConcentration is also encouraged when we keep ourselves as silent observers as the child works. Interruptions like,"Good job", however infrequent, cuts the depth of concentration. When we try to help/correct our child, as we see him struggle with a task, we are also affecting his effects to strengthen his concentration ability, and at the same time, taking away his joy and satisfaction (self reliance skill as a result) when he works out the issue on his own.
Do we need Montessori materials?
All items have their rightful place, the child should be shown where a particular item can be found and to be returned after use. The child cannot abandon his material/work after use, he must be willing to return it to the same location out of respect for the environment and its rules. The child may never pass on nor take material from another. No matter how badly he wants the material, he should be patient and wait till the material is being returned (to its location) before taking it for his own use.
When the material is being used in a way that does not attain it's goal in educating the child's mind, its usage should be stopped. If the child is calm and good tempered, the teacher will stop him sweetly. If the child shows otherwise behaviour, the teacher will exercise authority to guide him, but not in a way that seems to be a punishment for noise and disorder.
The child might sometimes perform acts which baffled us, like scattering things about, acts that they know very well would upset us. It is best to deal with the matter on hand as clamly as possible (reflect the cause later), careful not to give the kind of attention (that the child had intended to get, eg. scolding/punishment) but to show your disapproval in the calmest manner. Wait for the child to calm down before giving him positive suggestions.